17 September 2008

A Tribute to Eric

Eric Millward, in the company of many family members, peacefully passed on from this life on the afternoon of Monday, 15 September, 2008. He was just 44. We sensed that his time to leave was near, but we were surprised by how near it was.

The emotions that accompany such an event tend to come in waves. At times the sadness is overwhelming; at other times, it feels like everything will be okay. Those waves soften in intensity as time goes on, yet the desire to do something helpful and meaningful grows. Other than comforting my wife (who must now say goodbye to a beloved brother) and trying to hold down the fort, I have felt pretty useless. Then, last night, I was struck with an idea: create a web site where friends and family can share thoughts, feelings, and memories of Eric. This I could do, and so I have.

http://ericmillward.blogspot.com has been established as just such a place. I hope it will become a place where people will go to learn more about the father, brother, son, uncle, and friend who has passed from our realm; a place where tears, smiles, and laughs can happen within as little as one sentence; a place where comfort and solace can be given and received. The very first post on that blog sets the stage for loved ones to participate.

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